One Ro, Many Roads

Hi Peeps, Expectation is this word. The definition of this word from the Oxford Dictionary of English - Over the last few years, I have been told by a few people (yes, men), that I should have no expectations. I find this very confusing. Why should I not expect certain levels of commitment? Let delve into this further. Reasons for Having Expectations in a Romantic Relationship Clear Communication: Because “I’m fine” rarely means “I’m fine,” so having expectations helps them know when to bring chocolate. Motivation: You expect them to plan date nights, which means you don’t end up spending another weekend sitting st home waiting for a call or text. . Accountability: When they promise to take out the bins, it’s not a vague suggestion—it’s a sacred vow. Trust Building: If they consistently show up on time, you know they’re trustworthy (and not just lost again without Google Maps). Avoiding Mind Reading: Because despite your hopes, they still can’t magically know you need a cup of tea the ...